How to have tantric sex
For many people, sex is just a physical satisfaction of needs. Since in the modern world the first sexual experience for almost all people occurs at the age of 15, and it is safe to say that young people do not think at all about the spiritual beginning of sex. But for young people, tantric sex becomes a real discovery, which since ancient times has been built on a special system called “tantra”.
The root from the word “tantra” – “tan” is translated as “expansion”, that is, during spiritual and physical ecstasy, the partners expand their consciousness, at this moment they know themselves and the Universe. The tantra system is reminiscent of yoga – these popular systems have the same goal, but completely different means. But sexual intercourse should take place only with the person whom you feel spiritually, before whom you want to open up and get to know him, to tell all your most frank fantasies. Men do not understand what “tantra” is when making love to a partner, they only think about themselves. According to the Tantra system, a man, first of all, should think about his beloved woman, as well as about giving her pleasure during sex and elevating her to the very top of pleasure.
Basic Rules
Like other systems, tantric sex has basic rules that you must adhere to if you want to know your partner and discover the Universe for yourself.
Tantric sex is not an ordinary sequence, this action must be prepared with great care, thinking through every detail. Until the moment of having sex, you need to refrain from intimacy for several days, as it is believed that the passion between partners will be stronger. Choose a secluded place for sexual intercourse so that guests do not accidentally come to you. The most suitable time for sex is the middle of the day, when it will be possible to see the entire surrounding atmosphere to the smallest detail, changes on the face of a loved one and the slightest bends of the body will be noticeable. It is necessary to remove all bright objects, books and magazines, turn off the mobile phone and TV. You can turn on the pleasant sounds of nature, birdsong, or oriental sounds.
The most common sexual intercourse between partners can last from 3 to 10 minutes, and the more a man desires his partner, the faster the ecstasy will come. According to the “tantra” you must restrain yourself and prolong the sexual pleasure from intercourse not for minutes, but for whole hours. You can make love for several hours in a row, because only in this case you can comprehend spiritual pleasure. You should be aware that women take longer to reach sexual orgasm. And when a man wants to prolong sexual intercourse, partners experience an orgasm together, and this only prolongs the peak of pleasure.
Most importantly, don’t hold back your emotions! Cry, scream, moan, and do not think about anything, but give in only to your feelings!
In order for you to understand what “tantra” is, you must treat sex with a loved one not as an ordinary animal instinct, but as a spiritual action – at the moment of sexual intercourse you know your partner, and you merge into a single whole, spiritually and physically.
Many people think that after sexual intercourse, your consciousness will expand, and you can learn all the secrets of the world. In order for you to achieve great success, you will need not weeks, but whole months and years. But you should not give up – every time you have sex, you will learn to understand your desires, as well as the preferences of your partner every time to give him more and more pleasure.
The most important thing in tantric sex is foreplay. You should not only excite your partner, but caress your friend long enough to cover your eyes. Look at each other, respond to every touch. So that you and your partner can achieve simultaneous orgasm, you can try the very popular “swing” position: your beloved man sits in a pose and bend his knees, and the woman sits on top of the man, and together they swing slowly, in time.
You should not rush – your movements should be smooth and slow, sensitive and measured. The faster you move with a partner, the faster the final will come, and this is simply not acceptable. Always be in the understanding and consciousness of what is happening between you, you should not rush for pleasure, but feel the joy and intimacy from spiritual and physical contact.
